![]() ![]() Some are drawn to them, enjoying their generosity, others are put off by their intrusiveness. They are often unaware of the effect they have on others. Their energy projects outward - feels like it is coming toward you. There is a reaching out quality, like they are trying to feel inside of you. Some of their youthful appearance is from their expression. They usually have a cute demeanor, look/seem younger than their age. There is a deep unconscious belief that having needs is unattractive and will push people away. A positivity comes from denying their needs and trying to get people to like them.īecause they feel unlovable and believe they don’t deserve to be loved they contrive a pleasing image. They are upbeat, positive, perky, and have a lot of energy. They fear they destroyed their image and desperately try to prove that they are authentically caring and giving. When they perceive injustice, they may go into a temporary rage and afterward feel shame and anxiety. They create an illusion and image of being independent, satisfied, and evolved beyond needs. They sacrifice to the point of depletion and become enraged when the people close to them can’t guess what they might want. They may only realize that they are hungry if you refuse their offer of food. If they are hungry they may ask if you would like something to eat or drink. If they feel sad they wonder if you are sad or believe that you are causing their sadness. They are very emotional, project feelings onto others, and believe that others are causing their emotions. They get their sense of self from their connection to others, they feel lost without this. So they do nice things for people so they will be liked and feel connected. They are often dissatisfied in relationships and feel their needs are not being met, which leads to feeling disconnected and lost. People with the Two pattern seek love and connection by desperately trying to please everyone. They believe they can only be loved or cared for by manipulating and willing things to go their way. HIDDEN ESSENCE: Loving Kindness & Divine Compassion Subjective NICKNAMES: Giver, Caretaker, Helper, Nurturer, Advisor, ManipulatorĮNERGETICS: Externalize & Projective - project emotion and image
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